I’m Still In Love My Ex Isn’t Though – What Should I Do?
If you are still in love with your ex but you think they are not with you then you are in a tricky situation. However it might not be as bad as you think. For starters it's possible that your ex IS still in love with you but is hurt or angry and is acting like they arn't. Most couples who break up still have feelings for each other.
If you can honestly say, I’m still in love my ex, there’s a good chance your ex might still love you. But that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a good idea to try to get back together.Â
You broke up for a reason. Even if you didn’t want to break up and the break off was entirely your ex’s doing, really think hard about things. It’s rare that a person can’t think back and see reasons why the break-up might be for the best. It isn’t always easy right at first when you’re still in so much pain from the break-up, but with time you’ll probably see that the break-up might even be good for you.Â
If the break-up was mutual and now you’re having a hard time because you feel “I’m still in love, my ex should be here with me,†then it’s even more important that you examine why you agreed to the break-up in the first place. Yes, there is a chance that a mutual split was a mistake. But if you’ll really look back at the reasons you both had for calling a halt to the relationship, you might find that’s better to love your ex from afar and work through the sadness rather than try to rekindle the romance.
“I’m still in love; my ex even wants to get back together.â€Â While this might make you feel very hopeful that the two of you might be able to work things out and live happily ever after, don’t be fooled into thinking that it will be easy. The reasons you broke up are still there. If you get back together, what will change? Your relationship might go along well for a while because you’re both so happy to be back together.Â
If you broke up thinking, I’m still in love my ex, and he or she thought the same so you got back together, you’ll go through a honeymoon period just as you did when you were a new couple. You’ll both feel like you saved the relationship and kept each other from making a horrible mistake. But that feel-good honeymoon period will wear off eventually. And then what will you do?
Couples counseling is always a good idea. It can help stop minor issues before they become big problems and it is well know that couples that go to counselling have stronger relationships.
Stop Divorce? Yes You Can!
Want to stop your divorce? Then you need to convince your partner to stay in the relationship. That's the only way you'll be able to stop the divorce. So how do you do that? The good news is that a divorce CAN be stopped anytime before the final paperwork is in. The earlier you start trying the better your success rate will be.
So to stop a divorce, you must convince the person to give the relationship another chance. If you have been begging the other person to give you another try or pleading for them to get back together with you, stop now.
Have An Ex Boyfriend To Get Back?
Do you have an ex boyfriend to get back? If you are like most of us girls you have probably already tried a few things such as begging, promising to change or even tried to break up a new relationship that he might be in. But this isn't the most effective way to get him back, so this article will show you some things that you can do to help get back together.
Try to think of any behaviors like that you’ve displayed since you broke up, and stop them now. Whatever you’ve been doing obviously isn’t working or you’d be back together already.
How to Get Over Guy – 5 Tips
Many people have difficulty knowing how to get over their guy and move on so this little article will show you some tips on how to do that. It doesn't matter who ended the relationship it is hard to say goodbye to someone you loved. A peice of your heart feels like it is missing and it's not easy to fill it back up again. So what do you do? Here are my top 5 tips to get over a guy you still have feelings for.
I Lost Love – Help Me Find It Again
Here is an article written by one of my readers Stuart. I hope you like it!
"When I think about how I lost love, I think about Alfred Lord Tennyson’s quote, “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.â€Â I’m sharing my story in order to help you if you too have lost the love of your life.
I think it is important to remember that every relationship has a natural lifespan. In Junior High, that’s about four days. As we get older, the lifespan increases. Most of us will only have one great love in our lives. The other relationships will terminate. That’s why when I say I lost love, I understand that this is a natural process.
In my case, my girlfriend's lease was about to end, and she wanted to move into my apartment. As we were spending most of our time there anyway, it made sense from a financial perspective.
But there is something significant about having separate places and I couldn't handle our relationship at this level. I guess the time span of our relationship was up because I wasn’t willing to become more committed.
Now, I know I handled the situation badly. I went to a friend’s bachelor party and let’s just say things got out of hand. Word about the wild antics at the party got back to my girlfriend, naturally, and she dumped me.Â
But, when I think back on what really happened, the events of the bachelor party were really a reaction to our discussion of more commitment. I seriously don’t think I would have behaved the way I did if I really wanted her to move in. I just wasn’t ready for the direction it was taking.Â
I’m glad I was with my ex for the time we were together, but I don’t think she was the love of my life, my soul mate.  I loved her. I still love her. But, she is not the person with whom I see spending the rest of my life.
I really was hurt when she said she wanted to end things. Sure, I understood that I had hurt her. But, I didn’t want her to leave my life completely.
I guess what I wanted was for things to continue on the way they were. But, every relationship has to grow or die. Because I wasn’t willing to let it grow, it had to die.  That’s how I lost love."
Great article Stuart - I hope you find a new love soon! - Georgie.