Best way to get her back?
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If you’ve recently broken up with your girlfriend or wife then it can be hard to know what to do to try and fix the relationship. Sometimes, it seems the more you try to fix things the further they pull back and distance themselves from you which can be extremely frustrating. This post will show you the best way to get her back so you’ll have a quick strategy to follow and hopefully be back in her arms in no time.
The first thing you need to do is start acting strong and confident. After all this is probably what attracted her to you in the first place. Women like a man who is independent and strong and find this very alluring. While it can be hard to act confident when you are feeling hurt and upset you should try hard as it is the first step to getting her back.
During this time you need to avoid doing anything that she will see as desperate such as constantly ringing or texting her, sending her flowers or just ‘bumping’ into her whenever she goes out. This is guaranteed to make her want to back off and avoid you – the complete opposite of what you are trying to achieve.
That means you are going to have to avoid her for a while and not make contact. You’ll need to give her time to start thinking about what you are up to again. How long you leave it is up to you and depends on how the relationship ended but usually a period of a month or two is good to begin with.
During this time it’s time to get on with your life. Start reconnecting with friends that you haven’t seen in a while, visit an art gallery (if you are into that sort of thing), go see a movie that you’ve been dying to see. These things are important for a two main reasons. One to keep you busy and doing things that you enjoy and haven’t done in a while, and two to have a list of things that you can say that you have done when you eventually see her again.
She’ll be much more interested if she see’s you and asks ‘how have you been’ and you reply ‘great, I just finished that novel by David Wroblewski last month while I was holidaying at Miami’ rather than ‘terrible, I miss you so much’.
This will peak her interest and start to want to reconnect with you now that you seem so interesting and confident. And that really is the best way to get her back.
