Does giving your ex girlfriend space to miss you get her back?
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It can be hard to know what to do when you break up with your girlfriend, do you stay away and give your some space, or do you try and contact her to patch things up?
It’s true that if you give her some space she will miss you, however you don’t want to leave it too long or you’ll never get her back.
So here is a quick strategy of what to do according to how long ago you broke up, how long you were together and whether the problems of your relationship still exist or not.
Giving her space to miss you is a great idea at the beginning of a break up, but don’t leave it more than three weeks otherwise she might start thinking about moving on.
During that three weeks, you should be working on yourself so that when she sees you again you are looking really good. Get a stylish haircut, go to the gym and lose a pound or two. All of these things will go a long way in getting her back because she’ll be impressed by your effort to look hot.
Then suggest a casual catch up over coffee or something. Keep it really casual, more of a ‘just wanted to see how you were doing’ sort of thing. Don’t get defensive or accuse her of anything at this meeting, and also don’t be needy or beg for her back – your goal is to act as if you were catching up with a friend. Be the man she fell in love with in the beginning.
