How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back – Yes You Can Save Your Relationship!
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There was a time in my past that I couldn’t stand to watch the advertisements on TV. Every ad seemed determined to mock me that I wasn’t in a happy loving relationship like they were and I wasn’t cuddling up the sofa with my loved one. No - I was alone because my ex had broken up with me and so I felt more like Bridget Jones than Angelina Jolie. Then I decided that if I wanted him back then I had to take action, so here are the steps you can take on how to get your ex boyfriend back.
The first step is to take a moment to breathe. You are not going to get him back if you are emotional or hurt, so take a few days to get yourself back into a reasonably sane state before you start your mission. It helps to know that you have a plan in place and that things are not completely lost yet (they are never too far gone, even if he is already dating someone else).
The reason this is important is because you don’t want him to think you are stalking him which is a big turn-off for most people. So try to avoid calling him, showing up places that he will be and even try playing a little hard to get if you can manage it. If you have to see him, because say you work together, then just keep things as professional and calm as you can and keep the small talk to a minimum for now.
You also need this opportunity to take time out for yourself to renew your spirit so see if you can have a night out with the girls or catch up with old friends for a movie. Do anything sociable that brings you joy and pleasure as this will help you get into the right frame of mind when you do contact him again (and you will be doing that soon – hang in there).
Ok, now that a week or so has passed and you haven’t contacted him it’s time to make your move. Give him a call or send him an email with a cheery but cryptic message so that he is intrigued enough to call you back. Something like, “Hi John, its Kelly here, just wanted to thank-you for that thing you did. Hope to catch up with your soon, Kelly.â€Â He will be wondering what he did and he won’t be able to resist calling you back to find out it was.Â
When he does call you back act very casual but friendly and tell him something appreciative that he has done (make it believable) and make sure that you keep the conversation short because you have to be somewhere soon. I guarantee you that he won’t be able to stop thinking about you and you’ll have your ex boyfriend back in no time.
