If You Dumped Him – Can You Still Get Your Ex Back?
Getting an ex back is hard if you were the one being dumped. But imagine how you would feel if you were the one who did the dumping? That is the position that Aimee found herself in and she had to go about getting an ex back.
Aimee's was told that her boyfriend Jaime had been sleeping around. Without verifying the information Aimee confronted Jaime. This took Jaime by surprise and he didn't do a good job of defending himself. Aimee dumped him.
A few days later, Aimee found out that Renee had been lying for her own jealous, petty reasons. Now Aimee was in a quandary. Getting an ex back was important to her, but she also wanted to save face.
Aimee called up Jaime and explained what had happened. But Jaime was in no mood to take her back. Aimee had hurt him by not trusting him and not even talking things over with him.
Getting an ex back took all of Aimee's wiles.
Aimee wrote Jaime a long letter of apology. She took responsibility and promised that it wouldn't happen again. She said she acted that way because she loved him and couldn't stand the thought of him with another woman.
After she had mailed the letter, she didn't bother him with constant texts or phone calls. She figured that getting an ex back after a situation like this one required that she give Jaime his space.
When she did run into Jaime, she was nice and worked positive memories into the conversation casually. She didn't apologize any further though as she had already told him both in person and in writing that she was sorry.
One day, Aimee got tickets for Jaime's favorite band which was in town for one concert only. She asked Jaime to go with her 'just as friends.' In this way, she opened the door to a future relationship without crowding him.
Getting an ex back after you have behaved badly and dumped him is difficult. Rebuilding the trust is a key component in this period.
Jaime and Aimee did eventually get back together. Jaime came to see that Aimee's outburst was the act of a jealous woman who deeply loved him. He saw it as a mistake that they could both grow from.
