4 Easy Ways to Win Love Back
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Breaking up with someone sucks big time. They say that the more times you do it the easier it gets but I disagree with this. It always hurts when you get dumped, especially if you have strong feelings for the other person. And if your are like most people, your first instinct is to try and win love back. So this blog post will show you four easy ways to help get your relationship back on track.
But before I start I need to make a little point. Relationships take time to heal. I’m not going to lie and sugar coat it that all you need to do is say something or do something and then wham bam you are back together because it’s usually a lot more complicated that than. But I do know that this tips will help you set foot in the right direction.
#1 Apologize
It’s one of the easiest things to say yet most people don’t think they need to out of pride. Get over it. Saying sorry is the fastest thing you can do to start mending the relationship. Even if you think that you did nothing wrong it gives the other person a feeling that their feelings are being heard and really that’s what everyone wants – for the other person to understand and empathize with them.
#2 Take Time Out
You are going to have to give them some space in the beginning. I know it can be hard, and yes I’ve been guilty of just driving by their house at night ‘just to see if they are home’, but I don’t recommend it. If they think that you are in anyway crowding them, or worse, stalking them they will run the other way.
This is advice is not just for them though, you need time out as well to regroup and heal yourself so you are in a better position for when you do start making contact again.
#3 Schedule a Meeting
Once you’ve both had a bit of time to get your thoughts back together, it’s time to sit down and try and talk things out. You want to talk about what was and wasn’t working in your relationship and see if they can be fixed.
It’s very important that you stay calm and positive at this meeting and whatever you do don’t get into an argument or get defensive if your ex says something you don’t like. I know it can be hard, but if you need to defend yourself just say something like “I’m really sorry you saw things that way, it wasn’t my intention to hurt you at allâ€.
#4 Don’t Be So Available
I don’t really like playing games in relationships, but unfortunately this one really works. Don’t always be there when they ring or call them back immediately. This tip ties in with #2 in taking time out for yourself because you should be catching up with other friends, going to movies, living your life.
This will help your ex see how much fun you can be and start to want to be around you again.
April 7th, 2009 - 06:22
You have a lot of vary good tips about how to win your love back. Another thing that works really well to attract your ex back is to improve on your self before you try getting them back. If your ex sees how great you are doing. Then they cant help but be curious.